Got it fixed, went back to stock idle air tables, enabled dfco and a few other small tweaks and now it drives great, more of a defined lope, and idles solid (although being able to reduce idle fuel would be nice, runs a bit um..rich). Also modified the boarderline spark tables and a few other tweaks for a 93 octane tune. Taking it to the track tonight to get some logging in. Not sure if Ill have time to make changes, but definitely want to get some good logs in, both with hptuners and my other handheld (more parameters) and compare the two.
Im attaching the file if anyone wants to take a look at it. Car runs great, no wrench/check engine lights, and overall great drivability
Short youtube clip
http://youtu.be/tY2gFpEnXS0