So in attempts to play with desired shift time vs actual to see if it impacted my flare, my 3-4 shift is 0.20-0.23 seconds in some areas.
On the stock tune, I was seeing 0.28-0.30s in the same areas (around 300 Nm and 2500 RPM right before the 3-4 shift).
Stock commanded 0.35 and now I am at 0.28. The truck always seems to shift faster in 4th than commanded - especially in that load area.
So...how fast is too fast?
I have never really came across issues where it was going faster than commanded, but the newer adaptive stuff is new to me anyway. A lot of the factory tables are commanding 0.27-0.30 seconds in many areas.
The ratio change from 3-4 isn't huge and it isn't banging into gear. It feels fine, but I don't want to leave it at that without some feedback on what others see.