I damaged my substandard design ECM connector (hindsight vs the Gen 3 connectors I've used in the past) trying to remove a pin for a PWM fan swap. What I didn't know was that there is a 2-step process to remove these terminals and a special tool for the purpose. What is fairly commonly known is removing the green 2-prong terminal lock, which is called a secondary lock. It turns out the terminals have a primary lock that must be released via the tool- basically a very small pin with a handle. I have not seen anyone post this info about removing these terminals, so I wanted to post it here.
The special tool needed is a Delphi PN 15381651-2, Kent Moore PN J-38125-21, or Harley PN HD 45928. There may be some knock off tools such as Rennsteig that do the same thing for a lot less money.
I'm attaching a one-page PDF from a Harley service manual that shows the primary lock removal process. While it's not exactly the same ECM connector, the process is the same:
1. Remove connector from ECM- flip lever and remove connector.
2. Remove the "hood" via prying the latching pins on one side with a small screwdriver.
3. Look for a green tab on one side of the connector. It's shaped differently than the one in the Harley picture (#1 on figure A-15). That's the secondary lock and it has to slide out. It has 2 legs and presses against each terminal inside the connector. Remember which way it came out, it only goes in one way or you can damage it.
4. Now for the secret part. Look at the face of the connector, and you'll see very small holes above each pair of terminals. On the attached PDF figure A-15, it is #2 on the picture. Press the special tool in and hold it, then at the same time pull on the terminal(s) up to 2 at a time and it/they should pull free.
Installation of a terminal does not require the tool- they just push in. Be aware GM suggests replacing these substandard connectors after every 3 times they are removed. That is an indicator of just how crappy they are.
Micro_64_terminal_removal.pdf