The 30-0310 has CAN Hi and Lo wires that then get soldered to the respective CAN Hi and Lo wires at the OBD port, I use an OBD y-splitter that can be unplugged from the factory OBD port allowing for easy removal or diagnostic trouble shooting. The AEM 30-0334 is a gauge with OBD passthru connection and works great, plug it in, wire it up and re-poll for parameters in scanner and setup the math and away you go. Either work great and I use them both almost daily.
You have some work to do on both MAF and VVE with a wideband and trims off. You might have a good starting point but need some more refinement with the wideband. It will amaze you how things just line out on their own once the air models are dialed.
A piece of advice. Spend the money and get the training stuff from Greg Banish, from GEN4 through GEN5. Without good habits and base knowledge from GEN4, GEN5 is no cake walk. Dont want to sound like a dick but, a grand spent to educate yourself better on how this all works will save you thousands on parts and heartache. The forums are full of great advice but there is as much good advice as there is bad advice and misinformation.